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My ambition is... 😕Really?!

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What's your ambition? What do you want to become in future? What is your dream? or whatever the next person asks you. It is one of the most frequently asked question since you were a kid of Nursery. And you may have told to every one whatever as you think fit at different phases of your life. Because I have.  My first Childish dream was to become an army personnel, because when I was a kid I used to watch movies such as Rambo, Rocky etc with my father 'cause he's a fan of Slyvestor Stallone, and after watching those movies that time I felt like 'I want to be like Rambo', just pick up my gun and kill all the bad goons😂. After this anyhow I come to know about "engineer" yeah! engineer, en-gee-neearr. It sounds good though😅, that's what I liked about it when I was in class 7 or 8 with addition to that I used to hear that they have good position in society and they earn a lot and what not. But the point is what is the difference between Dream and a

Breaking free from the past

You are what you choose today not what you've chosen before.   Only a ghost roams around in the past explaining himself the things done by him or what he could be 'if' he would have done that. This feeling is not inappropriate, it happens to best of us but that can be used in harmful ways. "once you label me, you negate me".People will label you every time but its up to you that how you should react to it. Whether you'll just accept it "yes! I'm like that" or will you improve it "It's okay, i'll work on it". Otherwise it's very  easy to use the label as a justification for remaining the same or as an excuse for not working on your weaknesses. You may have to fight a battle more than once to win it You can bring to unknot the ropes that link you to your past and eliminate the fruitless sentences which are spoken to keep you just   as you've always been. Self nagging is a negative trait. It comes from our habit of

I couldn't sleep last night

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When did you sleep last? an hour ago, two, three or five or may be 12 hours. Ask me when did I slept last, I must say 37 hours ago. I don't know what is happening with me that I couldn't make it to my bed, literally saying because more or less I go to bed at 12 O' clock but I couldn't make it to that sweet heaven, sleeping. So I discussed this problem with my friends and they have a similar problem too and I know you too especially the folks of my age group. "we are such stuff as dreams are made on and our little life is rounded with a sleep" The above divine lines are of William Shakespeare which indicates that our life is bounded in a sleep where we progress through our dreams. but i guess this is not applied to me 'cause I cannot sleep too well. Every time I go to my bed, switch off the lights and just try to sleep but couldn't. I get thoughts of what I did today or in the past days like today I went on a quiz competition conducted by BIT Mesra

Students During Exams

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So what does your exams mean to you...? If you're in school or in college. Basically you take it as your assessment for whatever you've learnt in a semester or in a year. And it's very natural that before the examinations we try to do the impossible stunt  i.e. study what you haven't studied the whole year, or maybe there are some exceptions. But I often do it myself. I study in mornings, in nights to get better results and I bet most of you do the same or even more than this cause we all are students and it's in our instinct. So what's the point, to study during exams or to revise? honestly, I don't know the answer to this question myself. During exams my routine is - STUDY ⟹ EAT ⟹  STUDY ⟹ SLEEP  ⇒ STUDY ⇒ TIRED Yes, after few hours I get tired or even get bored because for hours and hours I've been watching the same sheet of paper, reading books, solving math or physics. Sometimes I undergo emotion turmoil that What if I study hard, w

Accepting Vs Expecting

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"Its very easy and normal to expect something but accepting is not that everyone can do" So, what are you thinking currently, working, playing, daydreaming or you might be expecting something either from yourself or from someone else. expecting something is as natural as expecting Indians to understand the meaning of Unity, Secularism and Patriotism. Or I'll get it down to my level that I might be expecting some good results of my 10th grade exams😅😅😅. However, life is completely unpredictable and is full of surprises, isn't it? But what if you've expected something? to complete something? to achieve something? but hasn't. What then ? Then what you have to do is something called ACCEPT. Just accept the truth rather than regretting about the loss and always thinking about the same. And sometimes it even becomes a yardstick in your mind that perhaps your limit is that only and you can't even think of crossing that limit. I say think "beyond limit

INDIA as I See Today

Our Democracy is about 70 years older today or rather young and we are trying hard to break the shackles attached to us since birth. We people only count our victories and never came forward with any of our defeats. This kind of attitude is FATAL or better I say is like committing SUICIDE. India is considered as a land of unity in diversity but I believe there is only diversity and no unity. Here, Hindus have to prove that they are secular while Muslims have to prove that they are patriotic. We worship the rivers Ganga and Yamuna as symbols of purity but we are well-known with the current conditions of such rivers. There are numerous of GODDESSES in Hinduism, we worship them and willingly bow in front of them but only we people are involved in harassing women on roads or females at home. If you speak fluent English then you are considered as cool, modern and or to some extent intelligent but when you use certain Hindi words, you are considered as dumb and dull and you remain good

Living on the "Edge"

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"If you are not living on the edge  you are already taking too much space." The above two lines means that if you are not taking risks at all then you are taking too much space, not in the physical sense but in metaphorical sense. Suppose you are pretty much an average student and want to excel on your academics but you couldn't. Always remember, no one is born genius and you are no different, but you are AFRAID . You are afraid to come out of your comfort zone; you are afraid to give that extra push; to go against what your family and friends want from you; you are afraid to take risks. Be "risk friendly", because seduction of safety is much more perilous than perception of risk. we are always seduced by safety and comfort, we seek it, we beg for it. But just once, get rid of it and you'll see you're capable of doing miracles. Then comes luck which is entirely random i.e. a chance, but the thing is you are already lucky to have this life, y