Breaking free from the past
You are what you choose today not what you've chosen before. Only a ghost roams around in the past explaining himself the things done by him or what he could be 'if' he would have done that. This feeling is not inappropriate, it happens to best of us but that can be used in harmful ways. "once you label me, you negate me".People will label you every time but its up to you that how you should react to it. Whether you'll just accept it "yes! I'm like that" or will you improve it "It's okay, i'll work on it". Otherwise it's very easy to use the label as a justification for remaining the same or as an excuse for not working on your weaknesses. You may have to fight a battle more than once to win it You can bring to unknot the ropes that link you to your past and eliminate the fruitless sentences which are spoken to keep you just as you've always been. Self nagging is a negative trait. It comes from our habit of